Hey Family! As always I hope that you all are well and healthy.
I just wanted to share with everyone that I have decided to get back into the world of youtube. I’ve always had a desire to create content and I have done it in the past for friends. See I love playing the background and not really like to be the star of the show. So this new avenue is something new for me. Isn’t it amazing how we all can look so confident in our selfies or photo shoots on Facebook or IG but in person be this really shy scared little person? Bet you don’t know what movie that came from lol
So the content that you will find there will be tech, music, lifestyle, and spiritual development. Basically all of the things that you can find here will be on a visual scale. Oh, and one last thing… Jax (my dog) will be around to. We will share our journey and some tips that we have discovered along the way of this Dog Dad Journey.
So I’m doing Youtube. Please join and follow by Subscribing to my page below
Hey Family! Happy Friday! I’m so excited that you are here with me and I pray that this finds you doing well and healthy.
Today I want to take sometime to express some encouragement and food for thought to all my over thinkers. So lets dive in. What is a over thinker? Well first we have two words that we can break down, so let’s start there.
The word “Over” can defined as extending directly upward from and this is using “over” as a preposition.
Today we will focus more on the adverb definition and it simply says beyond and falling or hanging from a point.
Thinker can be defined as a person who thinks deeply and seriously. So when you put those words together you get some powerful stuff. An over extended deep thinker. 🤯 Just saying that kinda hurts my brain.
Now, don’t get me wrong. We need to be able to think rationally, clean and clear about the decisions we are making for our lives. Whether it’s for our businesses, families, and ect. We must check the posture from where it is coming from. The posture is the foundation. Ask yourself, why am I not able to make the decision quickly? Is it because it requires research or is just fear? See, the majority of us are over thinkers because we are afraid of failure and messing up. Some of us don’t want to mess up due to shame. What would my friends and family think about me if they find out I dropped out of college? We must take a trip and go back to the building blocks of our heart’s morals and find out what really matters to us.
It is surely ok to take your time and think it over but you can’t get stuck in the process of just thinking. Some of us, and myself included have taken out years of so called “vacation time” thinking about a business we wanted to create or a book we wanted to write and not to actually start on it but thinking about the outcome or the unknown. If I wrote a book, would people read it? If I opened a business would people buy my product? We sometimes create all these filters and excuses before even doing the ground work to even start it.
I want to challenge you. If you are someone who deals with overthinking. I want you to simply rearrange the words. When you do this, you get Think Over. Simply think over it and make a decision and move. Check to make sure you are not simply holding yourself back because of fear of failure. What’s so beautiful about life and starting something fresh and new is that we don’t know that outcome. Do you think Steve Jobs knew how big and Great his company Apple would be from his startup in a garage? Even if you have to do it scared and it don’t work, at least you would know where to go from there. You won’t find out by thinking yourself out from starting or taking on a project. Let’s Think Over it and get working!
Hello Family! I know it’s been quite sometime since I’ve blogged but I’m here now. I hope this finds you well and in good Health.
I just want to spend sometime on the idea and thought of transitions. We all will face them sometime. Some will have more than others but we will all transition in some shape or form. Where I come from when you hear the word “transition” it sometimes can be frowned upon as something negative. We use the word when someone passes and dies a lot.
The dictionary defines a transition as the process or a period of changing from one state or condition to another.
Some processes maybe long, and some maybe short but eventually you reach the final destination which is change.
Many of us can attest to being shaken up last year with Covid 19 and having to swiftly shift our everyday lives. Some of us actually fought for our lives and had to literally grind to keep our head above water from sinking financially. Although the transitions hit us without warning, we still had to make them and adjust. I always am thinking about perspectives and how something dead in our faces could seem really really bad at face value but if we turned it upside down, it could actually be something good. I remember reading and hearing of many people’s adjustments through covid. One of my piano student’s parent got in real estate school during the pandemic and got her license. This is what I call a perspective shift. She had lost her job but used the extra time she had to pick up and study for real estate . Now she could have sat down and just chilled out and maybe took unemployment but she still would have had to make a transition eventually.
Transitions happen and are necessary. It is apart of the human body and even our creator, God welcomes transition. You cannot grow without going through the transition for growth.
So what are some things that you may need to change up and work on?
What isn’t working for you? Are you bored with the same job you’ve had for the last 5 years? Whatever it may be, I encourage you to start the process for transition. It’s only in the process that you receive your development and will gain wisdom from the experience.