Stay In Your Own Lane

Happy Wednesday Family! I hope you all are doing well and that you had a restful holiday weekend. Today I want to share my thoughts on staying in your own lane and how important it is to own it.

So first, let me just say this. What God has for you, is for you! When you were created, he had your life mapped out from beginning to end. He has a destiny for you and after he created you he put you in your own lane. Now… what’s amazing about this lane is that you can see others in their own lane as you move forward. You can even see these people behind you if you decide to look backwards. Some of these people might even cross into your lane sometimes and you might cross into theirs BUT you have your own lane with your identity. Let’s break this down even more. In your own lane, you might have bumps in it, or even road construction and other may not. These things can be recognized as the struggles of life. We all go thru something but it happens at various times in our lives. I remember growing up and experiencing chicken pox. I was the last in my family to experience this disease. My cousins experienced theirs years before I did. That’s pretty much how life goes. What we can’t do is focus, or compare someone else’s life to ours just because it seems like they are making more progress than us. It can even seem like their doing less work than we are and we might even come equipped with more experience or even a longer resume. I want to encourage you again. Say this with me, “What God has for me, is for Me”. Trust his timing and also remember to use the vehicle of faith. God wants us to exercise our faith. Faith is believing and doing the thing you don’t see. So some things you will have to try. You may have heard the term “step out on Faith” well that simply means try it without knowing the outcome. Yes, in your own lane, there will be times when you must step up to the plate to bat your turn not knowing if it will be your opportunity and time to shine or it maybe a time for you know if this thing is for you or not. Regardless of the outcome, it will be add to your experience. Everything we go through contains a lesson. Lesson Learned. Whether it’s what to do or not to do, everything we go through contains a lesson. So I encourage you to own your own lane. I’m always saying to myself that I should be further along or I’m supposed to have done this or that. I remember just last week I finally applied for my passport. In my head I was always feeling some type of way seeing others travel internationally and I’m in my 30s and don’t have a passport. I remember last week walking into the post office for my appointment and the employee told me that there were a couple people in front of me and that I would be waiting for a while. I kindly said ok and took a seat. As I was seating there waiting, a elderly woman started to make small talk with me about how much info they needed for the passport application. While talking to her she told me her son was in Australia and eventually one day she wanted to be able to visit. This lady had to be well in her 60s. She told me she had never been out of the country, and she’s not in a rush to do it but if she has to she will able to now with her passport. I quickly thought to myself, that I’m 30 years ahead but not only that I’m on time and in my lane at the time I should have this passport. Don’t get caught up comparing yourself to others. I know it’s so easy to do it in this world of social media where everyone only post the good stuff lol but I guarantee even the people you think that are great have the same thought processes too. They might even be looking at you wondering how your process seems so much quicker than theres. Remember this! Your lane was tailored made for you. Carved out for you. Trust the process that’s will lead you to your destiny. God Bless!

Social Media While Being a Christian

Happy Friday to all, Just wanted to share this quick tid bit of something that kind of triggered me. I see it happen often and I just wanted to share my view on it.

We will start out with what happened. I received a DM from a new follower greeting me in the name of Jesus and thanking me for being a believer and they preceded to ask me if I had sometime to share with them. Me being me I immediately went to their page and scrolled their timeline and seen nothing but pictures of scriptures and bible quotes. I’ve seen this a million times but I was really looking for the actual person behind the page. The page had a name and a small picture that can’t be made out, so for all I know the page could be spam or it could be an actual Jesus worker behind that page doing the work of the Lord through social media. So I chose not to respond but I hearted the message and acknowledged that I read the message. If it’s spam they will message again or do whatever. I started thinking of the many pages I’ve seen over the years of being on social media of people who consistently post scripture, bible quote, sermons and such and begin to think is this helping anybody? Is this really effective? Is it really encouraging someone? Seeing someone’s page full of scripture, bible quotes, and sermons but you can’t see the actual person behind it. To make it even sweeter some people you can see and this is consistently what they are posting and posting but if you have a one on one conversation with them nothing of scripture or God comes up. Red Flag, Red Flag… what’s going on. In my honest opinion I would think it would be easier for the world and people to see a sermon rather hear one. Meaning, people who watch your life should see Jesus in it. They should see Jesus in the way you act on a regular day not just Sunday. I also remember Jesus being relatable. He went to the well where the woman was. He met people where they were. I believe we of the Christian faith sometimes push a perfect type of person to people who don’t know God. So the people who window shop and look through to see about Jesus through you see a perfect looking person, because we only show the good stuff and neglect to show the hurt, and the journey of hardship. We all struggle with something. We all experience something, but if that is never shown to people, it can be a turn off. I also believe that there are some people who are too heavenly bound that they are no earthly good. That means you’re just not relatable. In this day and time everybody needs somebody and for some, it’s easier to strike up a conversation with somebody who you relate to. You might be able to help someone who experience divorce or lost a loved one, but if they never see that side of you they would never be able to reach out.

I look at social media as a tool and blank canvas. I remember hearing someone say that social media is the devil and I strongly disagree. She said social media is the devil because people compare themselves to others and this produces peer pressure in kids. I totally agree that this can happen from social media, but I remember the TV doing the same thing. Even before social media we had peer pressure and bullies. Just to add some humor. If social media is the devil, then a car is the devil. A car can be used to get you from point A to B but it also can be used as a weapon 🤷🏾‍♂️ catch my drift? Social Media is a tool, and it can be used to produce good fruit or it can be used as a weapon. It was funny to me after this lady said that because I looked her page up and she was on a live selling product from her store. 😆 hmmm trying to make a sell on the devil’s social media, interesting. Let’s get back to it.

Social Media is a blank Canvas. People use them for various reasons. From keeping in touch with family and friends to selling their products or to just be a comedian, but however you choose to use these platforms, don’t forget to actually show yourself. Now I don’t mean to put all your business out there, but post a pic of yourself and maybe share some highlights of your life, with family and friends. Let us see a balanced human being. I know for a fact that most of us are not fasting 12 hours a day and reading and praying Monday thru Friday so why should your page or platform look like that’s all you do? Just be real. I believe people are more attracted to realness. When you post a scripture, explain how it helped you, give some insight and depth. If you heard or seen a funny joke, why not share that? If you seen a pretty picture of nature why not share that? Balance is key! Especially if you’re wanting to share the gospel of Jesus via social media. I know for me, I would relate to seeing a real person’s life than a page full of scriptures. Let’s see if we can see your life through the scriptures. I’ve noticed even some of the biggest and well known preachers share funny tid bits of life and their families because they have balance. I pray that this helps you as you continue on your socials and especially if you are a Jesus follower and want to share him. S hare him and yourself because people will need to see him thru you. Be Blessed

Your Hard Work Will Pay Off

Hey family! I just wanted to share this memory and story with you. I was literally driving the other day and I was reminded about a time when I worked at Old Navy. This was plus ten years ago when I was in High-school about to graduate and head to college. There was a promotion and position available for stock manager. I always wanted to move up so I applied. Leading up to the time of the interview, I had a setback. 2 weeks before interviewing my car had stopped working on me and I had to bum rides from people and even used Public transportation. Within those 2 weeks i had my first write up for tardiness. Public transportation made me late 2 times and it wasn’t just a little late I’m talking about 2 hours late. The other occurrence happened when I asked a family member to take me to work, they showed up an hour late. So here I am about to have an interview for a promotion after already getting wrote up the week before. I knew I didn’t really have a chance because there were two other candidates. I almost was just going to step out of the running but I said well what if. I did the interview and the next day I got the phone call that I got the position and I could come in and sign for the raise and get my keys to the store. I finally was able to take a deep breath. Looking at this story now I understood why my mishaps with being late a few times didn’t mess up my longevity of being a hard worker. I was never late before the last 2 weeks. I was showed up early, always came in on my off days, was quick to learn new procedures and new processes. I was hungry because I wanted to move up, but not only that, I put in the work. I want you to see the bigger picture here. The hard work wasn’t just for the job or company I worked for but the hard work was building my character, accountability, and integrity. Friends don’t slack off just because the other people are. You’re not built that way. You are designed to stand out from the average. The average gives in, the average say that’s all I’m doing right now, and the average usually always need recognition to do more. A leader never has to be told when to show up, or when to work hard because they already know that they are leading examples and that someone is watching them. I’m pretty sure the store manager was watching me, and she knew that these mishaps of tardiness wasn’t Brandon and life happens to people and she didn’t see that as being a part of my character. So I want to encourage you today. Keep doing what you’re doing and do it well. Don’t slack off, give it 💯 percent! You got this. Be blessed!